#177 【頑張り屋の落とし穴】「◯◯主義」をやめれば家は片付く！奥さんが実家と同時進行で自宅を片付ける理由とは？片付けレシピ

#177 【頑張り屋の落とし穴】「◯◯主義」をやめれば家は片付く！奥さんが実家と同時進行で自宅を片付ける理由とは？片付けレシピ

Basically this is the only space that I use so, Everything around the house always ends up here Don’t talk about it like its a bug! Someone is moving it here! Why do you think it is just this space though? Uhmmm. . . I’m not sure either Are you guys both clueless? NO!

I am putting all of the things that I do not use here And the training room I want to move the dumbbells into this room You are so mean Are you putting away his things as well? Putting everything away is not always the answer

We will be bringing a little bit of spice and fun into your household in 2024 as well! Let’s make this year a happy year as well! In this episode We visit a 4 person household who lives in their own house Please take a look at this first Hello! Nice to meet you!

Thank you for having me You look like a new couple! Wow, you are real Such a cute baby as well Is this house new? It has been 4 years since it was built Wow, such a nice house What is this?

I am trying to get rid of some things that I brought from my family house I see You are getting rid of your own things? No, I am getting rid of just things in my family house You are? And you brought this here? I am planning to get rid of it soon

I see That seems like a waste Are you sure? yes You are organizing things in your own family house and you are calling me to help with your own home as well? There were some circumstances that we were not ready for . . . What? Are you okay?

I’m going to come in okay? Excuse me! There are a lot of doors in this house This is the bathroom and shower Can I look inside? Wow! This is so nice! You are like a happy family from a fantasy world Is this not the storage? This is the shoe box

Oh, so there is a storage here Wow, it is so neatly organized It’s so nice I got rid of some things I see I am bad at cleaning I need your help You are fine This is fine! No, this is not fine! Are you sure? I would like for you to check

I will come in okay? Wow, this is the living room. So nice! It is so nicely lit and such a nice room This is the model storage Everything looks so nice except for this corner What happened here? This corner is chaos The right side is the clothes rack

This place is mostly dead space I have no clue what you are saying Who is sitting here? I am This is your space? I spend most of my time here so What? I saw the outside of this house and it is pretty huge but You only use this space? So small!

So everything kind of compacts itself Don’t talk like it is a bug Someone is putting this here Why is this the only place? Ummmm… I don’t know why Are you guys both clueless? No! What do you mean? All of the things that we use on a daily basis is packed here

And the youngest child can reach some of the things so So we moved it to the top There are just things that my husband puts down temporarily. I see so the top is not moving but the middle is The things that are moving are all mixed no all of it is moving

It is clothes that are being used This is moving This is so much Some places have nothing moving and this place is so concentrated It’s like you are living in a one room house And all of the clothes that we use is in this one corner

So you are actually only living in this one corner You are lazy right? There is a closet upstairs but but I have no time to be able to go up there why did you build a two story house then? you only need two rooms Do you not have any problems here?

I do have problems here Really? I want to clean this place as well I think you know about my cleaning method but, what do you think about this view? I don’t like it that much I think it’s quite bad I will decide whether all of these things should stay here or not

And this is the living room where you also dry your laundry We dry indoors most of the time So even though the house is nice, there is always clothes hanging here Are you busy? Right now, I am taking a break from work to take care of my baby but,

How old is your daughter? 1 year old And you are on break to take care of her And you are planning to go back to work? I will go back in April Wow! You are going back so soon (currently March) Are you worried? I also have an older daughter

I need to take both of them to and from daycare And I need to clean the house I don’t know if I can do all of that How old is the older daughter? 3 years old so a 3 year old and 1 year old

I think this house is amazing if you have 2 babies So you have a 3 year old and 1 year old And you do house work and go to work as well Makes sense that you want everything within reach I see You should have told me that I’m so sorry!

I thought dad was bringing this ladybug bag to work! So you do this because it is convenient when you go to work You have a storage here too This place is not used as much either There is not a lot of space that is being used I do use some of it but,

I can tell that you are putting in effort You like organization But I don’t know how to organize things Are you sure? That is why it is all here This storage has lots of deepness but you are not using the space correctly I think the bottom board is too short

There could be more in here Too little things for such a big storage I don’t know how to use this space either I think you need to use this space more efficiently But I think this is too dead Wow, this room is nice too! You sleep here? Oh, everyone sleeps here

Oh she doesn’t use this anymore So she sleeps over here now we have a mattress on the floor This is a storage? Can I take a look? You have everything so clean! We put two mattresses down and all four of us sleep here

But since our daughter is older and she moves a lot in her sleep I think this is too small for all of us I see Is there another place that you are planning to sleep at? I want to move the bedroom to the second floor I see There are some clothes here

This is the kid’s clothes and my pajama So this space is being used very well So you want all of the clothes that you use to be in the first floor I put all of the storage that we plan to use on the first floor

And also move all of the kids clothes to the first floor I think it might be wrong to have it at the dining table There is no reason for there to be space here Since we put our mattress out there, there is no way for us to move our clothes there

I think that you are not able to use this storage well because you are sleeping here. Hence why the clothes are at the dining table Yes, exactly I think that there was not a big problem on the first floor so We’ll head to the second floor Before that

This is the kitchen but is there any problem here? I do have some worries But the kitchen is very clean You do like clean houses right? I think so What’s wrong with the fan? This is crazy Wow, this is crazy indeed Everything looks new except here

This is fine as long as you change it I don’t think this should be here I didn’t know how to put this on I think this is wrong It looks like you are showing off how dirty it is I can change this for you if you need it

Is there any problem in the kitchen? There is a pantry back there but, All of the storages have no space When I first moved in, I wanted to put in boxes but I decided that cardboard boxes are good enough for now and put that in And it has already been 4 years now

I think being able to see everything is better I think so too I think that the transparent boxes that you talk about in your videos are very good I don’t hate the regular boxes. It’s just that people with regular boxes tend to misuse it

That is because you can not see inside of it I think this is fine but the problem I have with this storage is There is not a lot of things in here even though there is so much space And you instead have things laying outside of the storage

I think that if you can put that in here there are things left out on the floor You can put the noodles in the storage Is this the dish cabinet? We use most of the things that are in there There is not a lot in here!

You have limited the number of dishes but the storage is not being used efficiently That is the cutlery This is very clean Under the sink is very dirty I think that having chaos under your knees is fine

I would like to put my children’s snacks there so that she can get it herself but, That was only a thought I don’t want my children wandering in the kitchen so I would put it in the corner But that is the trash I see! so that is not an option

So she needs to come to this corner to do that Our older daughter is smart so she can understand what is dangerous Is your older child a girl? Yes Wow, you are very lucky! what is lucky? Wow, this is very high but you have it nicely stocked You love plastic wrap!

This is very high I can’t reach that! If I can barely reach it, it must be difficult for you You have the hot plate so high up there! We don’t use it that often so You wouldn’t use it when your children are young They will hurt themselves These are also storage so

I think it will get easier to use if you get used to it There are some food up here That is stock food You should put it in here since you have so much space! You are not able to maximize the usage of the storage

You also do not have a lot of things I think so too but when we get big packages like rice, There are going to be piles of rice on the floor next to you What is this? This is my daughters protein powder This is huge so put it away somewhere!

You can put it back up there! You have a height difference Yes His stuff can be up there He can reach with ease You are taller than 6ft right? Usually, I don’t help with the kitchen but Whether we clean the kitchen is actually up to Manami-san

If she says she does not want to, we leave I am ultimately just her worker She is controlling you? What? She is the one controlling you? Anyways, let’s go up to the second floor My voice echos here so much New houses are so nice

There are a lot of doors around here but where should we take a look first? Very left first There are some storage over here too what is this place? There is a lot of space What is this room? This is supposed to be the bedroom Wait a minute

You came in from a different place than me So this was supposed to be two rooms? We could make two rooms but we do not plan to at the moment I see There is more than 10 mattress space Maybe even 11 But this is all just storage right now? Yes

This is such a waste of space! I would love to make this our bedroom instead of downstairs So we need to get rid of everything in here yes But there are a lot of things in here at the moment Yes there is You should not be cleaning your family home right now

You have to do something about this space I am doing some cleaning so I put that up there where the kids can not touch I see, you are cleaning right now This is all things that I do not need What? You are in the middle of organizing things Wow, you are hard working

Yes, umm… Good for me! This wife was also a hard worker You do this by yourself right? Yes basically Husband doesn’t help? Not really I think that this is fine Yes I don’t see the problem right now So you are going back to work soon so You are in urgent need of help

Since I am still able to move, I am trying to get rid of the outgrown clothes And that is why this is happening You have a room for storage so if you just move everything in there then you will be fine but why are you using such a large room to do this?

There is a big storage here but can I take a look? this is the husbands things? This side is the husbands The other half is my things so this is the parent’s clothes This is so nice with a lot of things So most of the parent’s things are in here I guess

And the things in the first floor are things that he can just use daily so this place is being used during the winter but You don’t use this too often then right? So if we need anything from here, we just move it to the first floor I see

And there is some storage back here too There is barely anything in here It’s empty But the things in here are because you need them right? There are some things that we do not need And there are things that we are planning to use in the future

So if this place is cleaned, you want to put this out I see We clean this room out and sleep here so that you will be able to use the storage on the first floor easier this is easy right? I understand is this all the rooms? There are two rooms in the back

Is this the middle room? Wow, this looks like a sport player’s room Is this the husband’s room? There is a lot of the husband’s things in here He also does work in here as well. Oh so he works from home? No he does not

So he is not always here but when he wants to, he can work here as well You want to use this as the husband’s room The ideal situation is once I get the kids to sleep in the other room, I would like to have some free time in this room

I would like to be able to take care of laundry in here as well I was thinking an office for the parents There is a lot of dumbbells for an office room you want this in here? I think that it could be in the last room as well

Don’t talk like it’s the last samurai So you would like to keep this as a free space where you could work and do laundry like a workspace I like that Is there something in here? You have nothing in here as well???

If you put all of the things that are out in that room, you can clean the house What is this? That is the educational books for my kids This is such a waste! You are a perfectionist You want everything to be perfect but you can not finish before you go back to work

I do things slowly but There is not enough time Your children are crying now We need to check the last room This is the last room what is this room? This is the storage room There is a bicycle in the very back do you ride it in here?

I would like to ride it but I can not at the moment You can’t ride it if you have it here But if I leave it outside, then it will rust But right now, you do not have time to ride it So you are bringing it all together right now

What do you want this room to be like? It will eventually be the children’s room The dumbbell room will also eventually be the children’s room as well So the two small rooms will be the children’s room and the large room will be the parent’s room in the end yes, in the very end

But since the children are still too young, we are using this as a storage room You have so many places that you are using as a storage room There is so much waste of space You would cry too right? She wants me to leave as soon as possible

But even if you want to do things, the children always want you to do something There is not many things in the storage room as well I don’t even have to check

I would like to move everything that we do not need in here and also make this a training room for my husband Are you trying to get rid of your husband? I thought that this should be the husband’s room since there is a bicycle here as well

But since you started to talk about using this as a storage space, I assumed that was not an option but you then decided that dad could be in here as well That other room used to be the husband’s room but now you want it as your free space

Since the children still start to cry at night, I would like to be able to move to the children as soon as possible I think that the husband’s space should also be a relaxing room That is why I want the middle room to be both of us

What are you going to do about the dumbbells I don’t want it in that room But in order to make it fair, this room should also be somewhat relaxing Yes If you think that putting everything together is my method, then you are wrong You are not using the storage correctly

I think that things that you are not using should all move to the storage first If you are going to use the dumbbells in here, then I think the bicycles are fine I think that this room should make you feel like you want to work out

And having this room easy to do work that will change everything about this room And since you do not have all of that down, you are doing all of these small things that are not getting the house clean You want to go to work while also taking care of your family right?

You want to get everything clean so that you don’t feel pressure to clean the room yes My viewers will tell you all sorts of things They will tell you to move this and move that it is easy to say things

I know that there is not a lot of things that you could finish with two kids by your side So you should use us to move everything where you want it to be And you want to have a good start to working That is exactly what I want

I am saying this because the kids are going to cry I would like to take steps but since your child will start crying, I had to summarize things sorry To get rid of all your worries, we have to just move everything that you have I would love to see the house completely change

Yes I understand do you have anything to say dad? We have a lot of space but we don’t know if putting everything away was the right choice so we were conflicted since you do not have a purpose for the storage, even if you put things in, it will pile up

I think that is what you don’t want I think we need to think about that but We need to begin because you have a deadline You have to set a goal at some point We are not looking for perfection I will go home now Let’s have some hope and believe in me yes

Don’t worry! I will make sure to grant your wishes mom! After filming We got a surprise message from mom Your mother is sick? She is sick for the past couple years Like 4 or 5 years ago, she collapsed subretinal hemorrhage and she has some permanent brain damage right now

Before your children was born yes Before our first born Yes wow, you had a lot of troubles My dad is still working so She had some stress So while I am able to help Do you have any siblings? I have an older brother and older sister they are not going to help?

They live pretty far away and I am the only one that is close You have to go back to work and you have problems with your family you also have 2 children You are so busy No, not really You are so bright! You can’t keep that all a secret Sorry

So I have some things from my parents house I see But you have decided that you want to start working again you have to think centered around the children I think you will have some hardships but I believe in you! Please believe in yourself! I will see you on the work day!

To be continued The mom from this house had housework and 2 children And she also had problems with her family She had problems with how to use the storage correctly In the next episode, we will attempt to change the first floor completely We have worked very hard! We will see you next episode!

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メディアで大活躍！日本の片付け職人こと『幸せ住空間セラピスト 古堅純子』による「#177 なんで入れないの？収納スカスカなのに物置部屋だらけの家【頑張り屋の落とし穴】「◯◯主義」をやめれば家は片付く！奥さんが実家と同時進行で自宅を片付ける理由とは？片付けレシピ」です。１０年以上前から整理収納アドバイザーとしてだけでなく、一歩踏み込んだ片付け方法「古堅式」を提唱してきた古堅純子。 今回は赤ちゃんのいる4人家族のお宅にルームツアーをして参りました！最後には相棒のマナミとアイコも登場！ 応援、よろしくおねがいします！！！

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