台版金魚妻的告白，不愛愛就離婚 (下) ft Juvena #人生啊 #人生小酒館 #金魚妻

台版金魚妻的告白，不愛愛就離婚 (下) ft Juvena #人生啊 #人生小酒館 #金魚妻

I am a bartender and the best bartender in the city. I don’t want to talk about Taiwan because Taiwan is a bit fake. My mother gave birth to me in Hong Kong and brought me to Taipei after she was born. Later, my mother ran away from my father. I

Had no choice but to go to a hotel in Tiaotong District. Later, my mother did a good job , and she gradually started to work, so she hired me to become Mama Sang. During my small junior high school, I grew up in hotels. Then one day, I figured it out.

I told my mother that I was about 16 or 17 years old. I told my mother that I had decided what I wanted to do. My mother said, ” What do you want to do?” I said, “I want to be a gangster.” At that time, my boyfriend said to me It’s good

, but I’m very scared. I feel like am I going to be with him in this life? I just feel that you won’t be the only man in my life . Nine times out of ten , life will be unsatisfactory. If you have anything to do, come and have a drink.

Welcome to the bar. Life Bistro This is a unit with touching stories about people and things. I am your good partner in life. I am Xiao Ou . Hello everyone, I am King. Hi everyone, I am Juvena. You have been working in Hong Kong for ten years.

Why do you want to come back? Taiwan is very important. When Chen Shui-bian was elected, my mother was still in the 8th National Congress of the Communist Party of China at that time, because at that time it seemed that the 8th National Congress of the Communist Party of China would sweep the 8th

National Congress of the Communist Party of China. The 8th National Congress of the Communist Party of China would unite and have a vote bank overseas. It was in Hong Kong. My mother threatened you to come back and vote at that time. I don’t understand politics. My mother told me to come back,

So I came back to vote. I just wanted to finish voting. At that time, I had a boyfriend in Hong Kong. My boyfriend at that time was a Sri Lankan, a very good man , but he was also very good. I’m very obedient , so I just want to say that

This is coming and coming again, and I am finished. I am my father. So at that time, the term in Taiwan had already been divided. It had been separated for many years, so my mother asked me to come back to vote. When I

Voted in the name of voting, I stayed for a month or two and never returned to Hong Kong . Of course, I just met new boys there. That’s the main point, right ? And then I didn’t have to work. Anyway, just because of that, I met new boys. I can be so sentimental

, but I won’t be sentimental, so I thought that if I met someone, I would have to cut off with the other one, so I decided to settle down with the one in Taiwan who voted. After settling down, I will go to Hong Kong to deal with all my things.

I flew back and broke up with my Sri Lankan boyfriend in Hong Kong at that time . After everything ended in Hong Kong, I decided to come back to Taiwan and settle down. This was the beginning of a new chapter in my life. After I came back to vote,

I thought it was a good idea to meet this boy. Little did I know that I fell into another hell trap, so I took this boy with me very quickly. He was not a very good partner. When I was with him, I often quarreled and cried.

Later, I finally sobered up and wanted to break up . Then I met me. My ex-husband is the beginning of a new chapter in my life. When I entered the marriage, everything was completely shuffled . If it hadn’t been for this marriage, I wouldn’t be sitting here recording the podcast with you today.

I would continue the party. Maybe I don’t know which country it is in right now. Yeah, I don’t know. Anyway, it’s a great beginning. Even though I’m divorced, this marriage is a great marriage. It’s not that it’s a marriage of a perfect princess and a prince.

It’s that if my life doesn’t turn upside down. On this page , I would not laugh like this today. Looking at everything I have, it is a big turning point in my life . Of course , I am very unhappy and unhappy at the moment

, but it is a very important chapter in my life, so it is related I also want to thank the boyfriend who voted for me before. If he wasn’t such a scumbag, I wouldn’t have known my ex-husband. Then you can talk about it . In the process of this marriage, you

Jumped a little too fast, which is equivalent to saying that you have jumped too fast. Come on, hurry up, because you can’t talk much in one episode, hahaha, we were actually chatting just now , because you just talked about divorce, right, and we also talked about the Japanese.

In fact, my ex-husband is a celebrity, a celebrity, really a celebrity. When I met him , he was still in Play some small supporting roles or some extra-acting comedians . He is a great person . Then we got to know each other because of the introduction of a friend , and soon we

Got everything done within three months . We just talked about it. I fell in love and then got pregnant, and then it took three months to finish everything , and then we lived together. Xiao Ou knew everything about the story at the beginning.

Shit, he was not like this at all at that time, okay? He was with me at that time. Let me tell you, I will marry him or break up with him, hahaha, that’s about it, because you know pregnant women are very emotional

. Anyway, we women have to blame He Meng for everything. That’s right . So when I was less than three months pregnant, I started to argue that I wanted to abort the child. Of course the Japanese couldn’t stand such dramatic women. You know, aren’t Japanese women

All very well-behaved? I know what Hong Kong women are and whatnot. Anyway, I am very strong-willed , and then I mix with Taiwanese culture. Anyway, the whole thing is uncontrollable, so my ex-husband was scared to death , but then he just felt that no matter what, the baby was going to be born,

So he first comforted me like this. He said what should I do after the birth, divorce, everything is fine. I am like this, as if I was guided by your mother, so I should give birth to the child first, and then talk about it. Anyway, it is just a step-by-step trick, and

The child is now 16 years old. She is a child. I’ve known her for how long, right? It’s really like this. There are many stories in the middle. I won’t tell you. I also admired Japanese culture at the beginning. Anyway, I think Asia will set a benchmark for Japan

, and you will look up to others and have all kinds of longings. Made in Japan doesn’t matter. Is it education, culture, government, etc. You just think their food, Japanese-made electrical appliances are the best, the best, right, so you think Japanese men are the best. Yes, I

And my ex-husband are also really great , and GG is also big , hahahahahaha This needs to be subtitled for me . I want to help my ex-husband make a good publicity because he is still single and is very good in all aspects . He also has a good temper and

Speaks Chinese very fluently. So in fact, when I am with him, we are both. When I speak Chinese, I don’t need anything like really marrying a Japanese wife and asking for something . That’s why my two children are very poor at Japanese . We are a Mandarin-speaking family, so

The marriage seems to be going smoothly. And on the surface, I seem to have a very strong personality , so it seems to me from the outside that my ex-husband just listens to me one-sidedly and feels very similar and great . But the problem is that what I just said is correct

, but he is very enterprising. He is also very playful , so after he gets married, all his focus is outside. He manages his work, his connections, and his circle of friends . In fact, his circle of friends is no different from that of real office workers in Japan

. He is almost never at home . To sleep , he always gets up and freshens up. He just leaves home , so he is not at home 24 hours a day. So in fact, these little Ou also see that I often play with Xiao Ou and his group of people,

And I am very happy. The reason I thank him is because I have two children. After I gave birth to my son, I also had a daughter. I seem to be a single mother. Xiaoou and his brothers, sisters, uncles and aunts all help me take care of the children

Because every time I have a situation, I I just brought two people out , and then I left the child to this large group of people. They were nannies. They took turns taking care of me because I was really tired. I spent a long time playing with them for several years

. My two children also trust these uncles and aunts very much and are very familiar with them . Every time I go out, I say that we are going to play with Uncle Xiao Ou and them . Then my two children will be very happy

, but so is Xiao Ou. My ex-husband’s friend. In fact, if you look at my Facebook and our social groups, you will find that we have too many overlapping friends. At first, my ex-husband introduced him as my friend , but then all his friends became My friend,

Because he has no time to be a friend, gets too familiar at the end. I will ask everyone who is your friend. I want everyone to express their opinions and say, are you choosing sides ? I am a friend of Juvena. Are you blue or green ? I will push them

And then if they say something wrong, I will get angry. Because I spend a lot of time in business , I am not just using them, but I am really communicating with them sincerely . Everyone is really happy together . I am also a gamer . When it comes to talking about it,

I have such a social personality , but I hid behind my marriage for more than ten years. At that time, I didn’t have any job. So why do I say that women must have jobs and income ? But during that time, I was very good at saying that

He was the boss of me. In the Lord , I am actually a person who really needs friends and my own circle. I want to have a kingdom of my own. But my kingdom has shrunk too small . It’s just me and my two children. The three of us are one kingdom.

For me, I think this is my responsibility. I must take good care of my children , but I have lost my outer circle, my kingdom , I have no friends, and my family has no warmth. I am a friend, which is actually

Very important to me. Sometimes this is also a subject of life, that is, at different stages, you have to face different choices. I often say, you may give or take , just like your ex-husband. He may be more important between work and family

. In fact, this is also me. I have been discussing that in the past, girls seemed to have to contribute to the family after getting married , or to work hard and sacrifice everything. But now it seems that this is not a very humane thing. No, this is

Back to the point. What happened to our family of origin ? This is why I am so outgoing and I value my friends so much. To this day, I still tell my friends that I was not raised by my parents but by my friends. Because I eat, drink, and defecate,

So in my heart I tell my friends everything. Even now, it’s because I know the shortcomings of my family of origin. After I had a child , even though my ex-husband and I didn’t have a very close relationship , I feel that when it comes to children, I It must be very close.

I am willing to take my children out to play together. That is because he is so young and cannot leave them at home. I let him know my circle of friends. I let him know how important friends are and then I let him see. I don’t want my children to feel lonely

, so I treat them like friends . I treat my two children as friends. I feel that in the past ten years, I feel that I have been very successful. Well, what I’m quite curious about is why we got divorced later because we never had sex. I’m telling you

, I don’t know what the viewers think of me , but they often ask me, how do you stay young ? My age is really When I was older, I often joked that the first thing is to drink , and the second thing is to have sex so that you can’t recognize it…

As long as you keep having sex, these two things will keep you young forever , stay young forever, stay young forever , and make more friends because Friends will open your horizons. You can’t stop at all. You can’t cut this part. It must be on Shorts , not for sex.

I must say that you want to have sex. I’m really talking about that now . Yesterday, someone asked me. He said, how do you stay young forever ? I really It’s about drinking and having sex. This is too fierce. It’s super fierce. Isn’t it cool? You go to her bar.

You know he used to have very exaggerated bars. He used to be so arrogant that he said, ” Whose friend are you ? I don’t know you. Have you ever gone out?” It is still like this now and has always been like this. People keep asking me if it is a membership system.

I don’t have a membership . You must have someone recommend you . No, I am a friend system. You can only come in if you are my friend. It’s super cool. Isn’t it cool? Super cool . What is the definition of a friend? As long as you get to know me,

You can tell me my name. I also call you my name. I know it is King, then Xiaoou , and you also know that my name is Juvena. When you come in, the first sentence I will say is who you are . You just need If you can tell these two answers,

You can come in and drink. If you can’t tell them, it’s not very cool. But I’m more curious about why I wasn’t promoted. It ‘s very important now that I’m calling for publicity. I have to look at the camera and say never marry or marry a Japanese , and do n’t even date.

You can just have a purely sexual relationship , but don’t date. Because the Japanese, as we just talked about, the Japanese are very polite and withdrawn. You have no idea what they are thinking, their joys, sorrows, and joys. You don’t know them. You may offend them. I will just talk about it,

But what they really say will be Keep it in your heart and you will always be with a stranger. Everything is too much and it just won’t work. I have been married to a Japanese for so long. In fact, I really don’t know what my ex-husband is thinking.

I will always be the one who expresses the most intensely. Of course, I am a Taurus . There will also be those who don’t speak or are mumbling. I once said that all Japanese are Virgos. There is no other zodiac sign. The reason why all Japanese are Virgos

Is because they are very picky about everything and they are very picky about everything. He is so withdrawn that he doesn’t even talk to himself because he will lie to himself. Even my ex-husband encountered any difficult things. They just said don’t think too much,

I don’t want to think about it, let’s just do it . I don’t want to face his true self. Face is the most important thing. He always wants to maintain a peaceful marriage. This can’t be like this. That ’s why I launched an attack and asked for a divorce. He said why .

I just said because you won’t do it to me. This will be subtitled. If you want to be subtitled, do it. I ‘m right, we don’t have sex , so you ask how to solve his sex life . I think it means that he just goes out to buy sex.

You can ask him himself and he will admit it because he will wait a moment and he won’t admit it to me. I will also force him to admit it. I am now stating that I have a very good relationship with my ex-husband. My ex -husband also told the outside world that

We are forever family and lifelong friends. Friends will not be related, right? We are not sex partners. We will always be family forever. Then my children also know that our whole family still lives together, and nothing has changed since the divorce. Everything remains the same as before marriage

. However, my children know that we have been divorced. After the divorce, our relationship has become better. Many outsiders will say Then will you still have sex? I said, we got divorced because we didn’t have sex. And now you ask if we will have sex. What a stupid thing to ask

. Many people ask this stupid thing. After we got married, we slept in separate rooms. Because I breastfeed the child myself and I am afraid of disturbing my ex-husband. I am a very conscientious mother , so we sleep in separate rooms. So how is it possible that there is no sex before marriage

And there will be sex after marriage? Some people will do this and think about other women. It’s okay if it’s more fragrant or not , because he has already seen it , so he doesn’t think it’s more fragrant. So we have evolved into a very healthy relationship. But a while ago,

My ex-husband asked me if we really can’t live together after divorce because he might I met someone who asked him why you still live with your ex-wife after you got divorced , but they didn’t understand because we were actually doing it for the welfare of our children.

I said that I was not a child who grew up in a very happy family, so I really hope that I am talking about my children. Even if their parents are divorced, it has nothing to do with them. When my children were very young,

I tried my best to use language they could understand. I explained to them that parents no longer love each other , but mom and dad will always love you and will love you more , and they all understood. I understand , and I kept telling them about this, and they also found that

My ex-husband and I get along more harmoniously , and we are happier and less burdened. On the contrary, I feel that my ex-husband ’s Japanese appearance has become more relaxed since the divorce. He can calmly say that our marriage failed , but now we have transformed our relationship into a family.

This is actually very difficult for my ex-husband. I thought he was calmly going out to buy sex. This is also because I am very smart now . As long as he doesn’t go home to sleep, I know that he went to buy sex. He is unlikely to sleep outside

Because my ex-husband is a Taurus like me. We have a behavioral pattern , which means I know that he is 24 hours a day. What kind of pattern do you want? If he doesn’t come back , there must be something wrong with him, but the child will ask him, ”

Dad, why didn’t you go home and sleep like this yesterday? ” Then he will say, ” It’s because I was very drunk . I farted in the store. You must have bought sex and slept in the room outside.” In it, I talked about some funny things about his father,

And I told them in a humorous way , and the two of them actually understood it very well . It really didn’t matter, but because our family is Japanese, they love face , so he wanted to maintain it. To save his face , in fact, this is what I often think about.

What is marriage? We really don’t want marriage, so the two of you are still married. It’s not convenient for me to explain. Welcome to the divorce group . I always say, you have to go. What is the origin of google marriage? Because for example, I actually have many divorced friends around me

, and even many seniors who have been divorced. In fact, they often talk to us about this topic. Who invented marriage? Who invented marriage? It’s about money, because they invented the marriage system to inherit property rights. If you go to Google, it’s really just a farm and the distribution of property

. Then a landlord invented this kind of relationship . So everything is for money , so this is the century. The biggest scam and the worst invention of the century. I often say this. You still have to face the distribution of a bunch of property after your death.

Anyway, I think it is inseparable from money, unless you compare it, just like you. When you leave, just give the store to me. I think it may be possible for you. The less you care about money, the less likely you will be controlled by the marriage system. Human beings are not one-to-one animals.

Look at all animals other than humans. There is no such thing as getting married. Subtitle writer: It’s super difficult to make subtitles. They just do it when they want (helpless…) I tell you that living things produce offspring for the purpose of reproduction . That’s why they are constantly related.

Human beings pretend to respect them . I ask you what is your favorite food? Veli Zajang Noodles. What about you? Do you like it best? The food is hamburgers. If you can eat veggie noodles for a year, you will vomit… You are not allowed to eat other things. You are also hamburgers

. Everyone is like this. If you can’t eat the food you love all the time. If so, would you fuck a man or a woman for decades? This is really against the nature of biology. If it is based on biological species, marriage is really a very cruel invention.

The most cruel invention of the century , because after all, I got married. I have been with a married partner for more than ten years (slip of the tongue). I actually feel that in this relationship, traditional women are actually at a disadvantage. In fact, in the process

, because they may get along well with you, he will only focus on you and then become more and more confused. The more he loves you, the more he expects from you. Just like you just said that you have been with a person for ten years. Your original so-called curiosity will actually decrease,

So it becomes what you want. How to arouse the other person’s curiosity and make the other person desire you is that you have to keep changing. You have to discover what you haven’t discovered about yourself and how you can avoid surprising yourself when you surprise yourself. In

Fact, I think I am quite well-behaved. I will try my best to satisfy his needs in a minimum situation , just like your relationship with your ex-husband . In my opinion, what is marriage ? If you think there is one person in your life,

You think you will be with him for the rest of your life, you want to be with him for the rest of your life, why would I choose him , why would I be with him , I have told you before how I proposed,

You know me Give him 50 points on the to do list and ask him, do you think this point is consistent with the solution? Do you think this point is consistent with the solution? I look at my marriage based on the state of the interview. Wow, you are so HR. Just use human

Resources for him. Damn it, you are not in line with human nature. I am super rational to the extreme, which means that I have analyzed it objectively. I think that from the time we are together in this relationship to the moment of marriage, I will get the life I want.

This life is what I want. I know that you want me to find another life like this in my life. I think it is impossible , but this is what I want. I live a happy life . I think you really live a happy life because if I were your wife,

I really have no choice. Support you when you change careers in middle age or suddenly become a YouTuber. I will really kill people. No point. If he supports me, I will say, pat him on the shoulder, okay, okay, you do what you do

, and then stab you to death with a knife while you sleep. The point is. He asked me to do it, you know. At the very beginning, he said, “You’re too useless. Please ask him to find another job.” I still remember that he refused to leave this job until his death

, but he would do things that he couldn’t do in his heart. He has placed his hope in you , so if you want to change jobs, he will be super supportive of you . But because he can’t do it himself, he has to make up his mind,

Stand firm, and stand firm again before he can change. I think our two personalities have a certain kind of personality. We are very similar , but you also complement each other to a certain extent , because I think the two of us are a bit like soul mates,

That is, we support each other in what we want to do , and then I encourage him to leave his job. I just said that you can leave your job and I will support you. Ah, anyway, you go out to play and do what you want to do.

We respect each other very much. For example, if he goes to Germany alone and he goes abroad alone, I encourage him to do these things . I believe that most couples are not allowed to do this because they have no sense of security or trust. At least in this matter, we firmly believe

That it is difficult for anyone to replace the position in our hearts. I have been doing this before we started marriage. This field research is because I worked as a bartender and I just finished talking about it . I started getting married when I was 40 years old. That year

I watched a Japanese drama. Japanese dramas really teach bad guys . What is the Japanese drama Noon Wife (Goldfish Wife) ? I forgot what the name is. Anyway, it means that the wife in the afternoon is right. It means that the wife sends her husband to work in the morning

And then sends the children to school . Then the wife goes to the supermarket to buy groceries and then starts asking men to do some inappropriate things . Then in the afternoon After picking up the kids from school, they cook, and then the husband goes off work , which means that

What he wants to do during his free time is his business . Regardless of whether this is fiction or not , I think this is definitely a real thing, and then I was attracted by this Japanese drama. That’s why I started my new life. I also feel that I

Want to do fieldwork in the middle time. That is to say , in addition to my own practice, as long as I go to work , I start to ask everyone . Then whenever I meet people, I will say you. Are you single or are you married? Then the first sentence

I asked was, do you still have sex? I think my understanding is that as long as Asians are in a long-term relationship , you will not have sex. I asked. After having sex for two or three years, I never had sex again. Then I asked,

How long has it been since you guys had sex ? Then he would say what month, quarter, or what. Subtitles: I’m too lazy to translate… it’s really a lot. Many, many , many, many, many, many . My ex-husband and I did n’t have sex even once every three years.

I originally thought I was a case. If I didn’t do this field research, I wouldn’t know. It turned out that I was just one of the people who auditioned. I found too many There are people who are exactly like me. Some people have been dating for seven,

Eight, five or six years and then never have sex again. So I think this matter is something that we Chinese people, I haven’t been able to do in the Western example. In the Chinese world, I think this is actually the case. It’s very common, so I want to explore

Why people have long-lasting sexual relationships. After it has become zero, I want to discuss this matter . Let’s go back to what we just talked about. In fact, to some extent, your father and mother influence your personality quite deeply . Do you have any impact on your children because of this?

Or is it? Inherit this personality to them or let them inherit this personality. Because as mentioned just now, Chinese parents are relatively authoritative, so I try my best to be democratic. When I first became a parent, I actually I don’t understand , but I was still very biased towards my children

When they were toddlers . But later I was corrected and someone told me that this was wrong, so I later adopted a more democratic approach. In fact, Xiaoou and the others also had it. I read that when I hit a child, I mean he screamed very fiercely , but later I revised it.

I think that children should be educated in a more democratic Western way. You should treat them as human beings. The key point is not to treat children as your possessions. They are pets and they are not your possessions. Your boyfriend and girlfriend are not your possessions.

They are just a companion by your side. You must treat them as an independent individual and you must respect them , even if their minds are not yet enlightened enough to be with you. Have a good conversation , but you still have to respect him as an individual.

You have to ask for his wishes , and then you have to ask for his thoughts. Just like your mother guides you to do such things. I think it should be like this. I think it is to be a companion by your side. Instead of being dominant and controlling,

Because our Chinese parents control even boyfriends and girlfriends , and in many relationships , such as master-servant relationships or boss-subordinate relationships, they just want to control you. Because if they don’t control you, they think they are just. You will lose some of the feeling of control that everyone likes. You must talk openly

And you must respect him as an individual . Don’t just ignore his voice because he is young and has low energy . I am like this with my children now . Yes, I know that he is now a junior high school student and he is a little confused about making friends.

You still have to pretend to listen to what he says, even if you have already moved on, you are your ex-husband, right? That means you have already left. But we will forget. Will you remember everything about your youth? You must not remember that, but when you are touched by something or triggered,

You will think of it. It turns out that I was so childish before , and you will lead me. Go back to that time, but you still have to respect them. I think you really need to respect them. We are too easy to use our experience to tell the younger generation

That you shouldn’t be like this. I have already been through it, why do you want to make the same mistake again? But I think the most interesting thing in life is to take a trip. Even if you fall and get hurt all over your body,

Even if you fall and get hurt all over your body , and everyone has different personalities and different reactions, the story will be slightly different. How can you have the same story? It’s impossible. I remember he said something, he said that life is actually a companionship in the end.

We can only accompany you until the moment my life ends , or the moment your life ends . It may be a companionship in a drinking bureau , or what I often say. That is, you don’t need to explain to anyone in this life

. In fact, in the end, it is you who still has to accompany yourself until the last moment. As long as you are worthy of yourself in what you do today, I want to make this choice and even respect my own choice. I really I feel like I want to appreciate this sentence

. It’s really great. I really agree with it. It’s worthy of myself. No, because we are actually living our own lives to some extent. I feel like that’s why you guys come together like this. I think to some extent it is because during our marriage, our other half

Actually gave us a lot of freedom and space and encouraged us to do what we wanted to do. I think we will gain something during this process. Some understandings, you will keep trying because this attempt does not help yourself to make excuses, keep facing it , and keep making new choices.

Then you will really have a feeling in the end. For example, if you see the person in front of you being fell, you will I feel like I should remind him that there is a hole in front of me and you are about to fall.

What will you get in the end ? He scolds you and he thinks you are so stupid . Just let him fall. Why do you care if I let him fall and then save him? I will thank you. Why are you doing these things? I once had a friend from Hong Kong

Who is a senior of mine whom I respect. When he gave birth to a child, watching him take care of the child actually made me realize a lot of things. I once I saw with my own eyes that the soup was served and the child climbed up on the table.

He said he couldn’t touch it because it was very hot. My senior in Hong Kong grabbed his hand and touched the pot to make it hot. He called me. I thought to myself, Wow, aunt, why are you so fierce? He told me that it’s useless.

Why don’t you just let him touch it once ? No, this is too bad . I think it’s too bad. I’ve also seen parents like this , but I think This is if the child touches it, don’t stop and let him touch it. Then tell him that it’s very hot and

Show him off. But if you grab his hand and touch it , it will actually leave a shadow on the child . You know, so he uses the shadow method to educate him. His child is in so much pain. Let me ask you a question. How would you react

If you saw a button in front of you that said it couldn’t be pressed? Actually, I still wouldn’t press it. My answer actually doesn’t necessarily depend on my mood that day. It depends on you. Are you drunk at the moment ? We have been talking today. In fact,

You don’t know what you are thinking at any moment in your life . Just like Xiao Ou just asked me . I just asked him that I was here to record. Can I bring wine? He said yes, I will go. After buying it, I said no, I have to buy it myself.

He said it would be fine without me buying it. I said, I don’t know what I want to drink at the moment . In fact, seriously speaking, if we look at the life cycle, we have already stepped into the coffin halfway. In fact, in this life

This is a very old saying and I don’t agree with it. The most enlightening thing for me in this life is that how you feel now is different from how you will feel tomorrow. They are completely different things. The marriage we just talked about , for example, the career you just talked about,

You may get up tomorrow morning and suddenly want a divorce . Indeed, some people may be suitable for marriage , and indeed some people may not be suitable for marriage. But you said Is there a day when someone who is not suitable for marriage is really suitable for marriage?

Yes, it is not certain. I agree. I agree , but I still have to reiterate that marriage is bad. Invented subtitles: You guys are talking together at the same time. How do I translate it ? The so-called “suitability” means that you can say whether he is suitable to live together forever

Or not. Whether we are suitable to be with each other forever is a good idea. I like this statement rather than the fact that we need to have a certificate to bind the two of us or some clauses to bind the two of us, such as laws and regulations

. Now my ex-husband and I are actually divorced, but to outsiders , let me tell you , no one in our neighborhood knows that we are divorced because he still sees you coming in and out together every day, or you and your children are all here. , no one knows.

In summary, who said we can’t be friends after a breakup ? To us, we are different people now . We still live together , but our relationship has changed, the legal relationship has changed, but the pattern of our lives is exactly the same . In one episode, a guest actually said something that

Impressed me very deeply. In fact, as long as you pass this level, you will be the best companions in this life . Because my ex-husband said something, I will never have anything other than marriage with you in this life. If I want you to be my colleague or friend or something,

You can only be my wife , but I have transcended it now. I am not his wife, I am his family member, and I am also his partner. This is what I brought up and asked why I am with you. The partnership project between us is our two children,

And our company will continue to operate. You know as long as our two children are not dead, they will always be the operators of our company. They were arguing not long after we got together. Get married or break up if you want ,

Because they think the two of them are not suitable to be friends. I want to say, wow, you two are killing my father-in-law. What is the logic of this ? But look at their current logic and what they were talking about back then. The logic is exactly the same

. In fact, it’s almost the same. In fact, when I was his wife at the beginning, I heard him say that I don’t want to be friends with people like you, and I don’t want to be employees. At that time, I would be angry and distracted.

Later, I feel that now I have positioned myself and I feel that he and I are family members forever because families can be close or not, right? But you know our relationship will always be there . Why are you and I a family because we have a child together

? I have no blood relationship with you. But we have a very good product , so as long as these two products are in sustainable operation, I will always have a relationship with you. To say it is a bit exaggerated, the other half actually ends up becoming a family member .

You don’t want to see him every day, so there is no sex life. Just because it’s reasonable doesn’t mean you don’t care about him. I don’t know if this can be cut into it. I think it can . Because in fact, like my wife, she enjoys living alone.

I think it means that everyone finds a way out of everyone’s reality, right . That’s right. Your ant theory, this hole is blocked. Fuck me. No, I have to find another way out. No, no, no. I think you said it today. Respect. Subtitles: Continue helplessly… The ant theory definitely works.

Before the end. I want to discuss a topic. To be precise, this topic has two levels. One is that most people do not want to pass on the discipline of our parents to the next generation , but unconsciously we will become our parents

And we will become us. Let me give you the most obvious example of how our parents treated us at that time . My wife’s parents are actually very strict disciplinarians. They will find anything unpleasant and just end it here. I don’t want to pass on such unpleasantness to the future. Well

, I was very rational from the beginning. I know that I was very rational from the beginning. I was also very rational when I chose this partner and decided to enter the marriage. At this moment , I must say that I really know how to interview people

For this marriage. Is it really okay? I am very happy and have a great feeling that we are moving in a good direction for each other, that is, we will see some of each other’s advantages and then change ourselves

. His personality is more like what I said just now and he is less likely to fight , but when he sees me, I am a An example that is completely opposite to him , so when he suffered some setbacks at work

, he also because of some of my encouragement and maybe stimulation, he slowly started to make these attempts in new jobs in the future. He felt that these attempts Instead, the so-called wall or mask in his heart was removed, so he would always tell his friends

That I was the benefactor who changed the most in his life. But I think the opposite is also true. I think I got the biggest help in life from him, which is called tolerance. The second thing is that I have always felt that most people suppress themselves in marriage.

What you are actually escaping from is yourself , because you think that if you give up, It’s like everything I did before was stupid. I think everyone lives for face. It’s true. We make many choices, actions and speeches just for face. And then because you maintain your own face,

You will be disloyal. If you want to say something sarcastic or package it, I think if the world puts down its face, there won’t be any wars. In fact, we can live very comfortably because everyone is protecting their own face, the country maintains the country’s face

, and the company maintains the company. face and then maintain personal face. What I mean is that if you are willing to let go of the truest things, no matter how you do it, whether it is in a self-deprecating way, a joke , or a serious way, can you face it truly?

Don’t lie to yourself and don’t lie to everyone around you. In fact, in life, how to take off the mask until the end is a big lesson. Don’t do fraud. Everyone, don’t do fraud. You realize that the moment you tell the truth, you are actually the most important person. It’s relaxing

, but the problem is that in today’s society, you tell the truth. Everyone thinks you are telling the truth. The worst reality is that this thing is good. Well, let me summarize it . We just talked about a lot, from family to marriage, for example. Or it’s the discipline of parents

Or some of the many principles of life. Or the story of life . In fact, we quite encourage everyone to live out their own lives and find out their own stories . There is nothing right or wrong because in the end you just face yourself. So if you have any feelings

Or thoughts If you have any thoughts , please leave a message to let us know your story or if you want something and want someone to talk to, you can send us a private message on IG . What the fuck life seems to have the courage to face life choices again

. See you in the next episode . Goodbye

今天邀請到台版的金魚妻，史上最酷最屌的天龍國調酒師 Juvena 來小酒館，因為篇幅關係，我們分成上下集。

上半集主要在聊原生家庭的故事，我們彼此分享了許多從小到大的一些經歷，以及看到的文化上差異，還有爸媽的教育對我們產生的影響。

下半集主要聊遵循自己的渴望，找到面對人生的勇氣，並且當個不傳統家庭的婚姻關係，最重要的是我們都面對了自己。

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章節
00:00 台版的金魚妻，史上最酷最屌的天龍國調酒師 Juvena
01:04 香港工作十年，沒想到這原因回來台灣
02:42 邁入婚姻展開新的人生，這是一段人生中很重要的一章
07:47 因為婚姻失去了自己，女性要獨立自強
09:37 離婚的原因居然是因為沒有愛愛，保持年輕方法大公開
12:40 離婚後還是跟前夫住在一起，因為對小孩的愛沒變過
15:26 結婚到底是為了什麼？找到一個對的人很重要
20:04 一部啟發內心的渴望日劇-金魚妻
21:59 擺脫傳統教育，給小朋友一個像朋友的家人關係
26:32 人一直變，只有當下那一刻才知道自己在想什麼

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