大龄剩女，谈恋爱太作，男人真的不是神仙！【俪馨姐-有缘】

大龄剩女，谈恋爱太作，男人真的不是神仙！【俪馨姐-有缘】

Women’s ideas are sometimes really interesting, huh What about when they’re looking for someone It will pick the nose and the eyes. I chose half a day. Finally, I chose one that I think is more suitable. But when it comes to love, it’s a special fight.

They always have a logic that makes men crazy. In their heads. These things are also a lot of men. Reasons for not wanting to go after girls Because of the logic of girls Not many men can fully read For example, he will think that I will not take the initiative to find you

That’s because I’m more reserved But if you don’t take the initiative to find me That must be talking about other girls I don’t call your phone That’s because I think when you look for me You will call me naturally But if you don’t call me

That means you haven’t thought about me at all Well, since you don’t want me Do I have to call you Then I won’t speak when you scold me But I’m giving you face But if you don’t talk when I say you Then you’re being violent with me Not willing to give me money

That must not love me Spending money on me didn’t go to my standard. That is not love me oh Isn’t it only natural that I spend your money? Should men pay for their women? If a man spends a woman’s money Isn’t that a gigolo eating soft rice?

Boys had better be rich and have good looks. High EQ Spoil me spoil I am a good man If I’m angry I don’t want to tell you why Let you guess You guessed right You are a good boyfriend If you guess wrong That means you ‘ve never been sad for me.

You don’t even know why I’m angry Oh, and… I broke up with you Just to give you a warning Just came to admit the mistake But if you break up with me Then even if I don’t want to divide I will also share what you want me to bow. No way.

Is that what they are like? So, as a woman I want to say a word of conscience to these little sisters. It’s really tiring to fall in love with such logic. Men are really not immortals. They can’t guess all your thoughts You can’t use the standards of a slag man to demand

An honest boy He can’t understand you that well. Everyone said right Let’s talk in the comments section. What do you think Recently, a little sister told me She went on a blind date for 3 years without any results. She doesn’t want to get married

She said that men nowadays don’t seem to want to get married. Also very unreliable It’s good to live alone. It’s true They say men today don’t want to get married. The rich one Afraid of encountering money One thousand meet a Zhai star Life is gone No money Can’t afford to fall in love

Also can’t get married Just lie flat earn their own money Does it not smell good when you spend it yourself? And women, men have no money. They are despised What about rich men? They can’t hold people again. So these words became popular among women. I can earn my own money, baby.

I can give birth to myself Does my aunt find a man to add trouble? Forget it. Sisters We live in today’s society You can already be self-sufficient. Don’t need to rely on men to accomplish anything We have a job have a career Have parents and relatives You can also have your own baby.

Life is perfect too. We are completely independent Can not be at the mercy of anyone and use We can create our own lives. And can live well Find a man for what? For marriage? For love? For the economy? These are not necessary, right? We can feed ourselves You can create a family.

And you can have your own financial resources. Besides, every woman can have a bright future. No need to rely on anyone Only need you to work hard The future is like a blank sheet of paper You can change the graffiti fill on it at will. Create your own colors and patterns.

As long as you are willing to make efforts and efforts We can make the future better. So sisters Please let go of the shackles that bind you to happiness and growth. Crossing that threshold To explore the unknown new world Believe in yourself So as to walk on the road of happiness and success

How do you feel when you hear these words? Are they right? I have always believed that men and women are two elements in this world. When God created man? A woman is a man’s arm. The two together is a complete person What is marriage? One day you will understand

If you choose a partner So this man Then someone in this life can be with you through thick and thin. overcome difficulties together Enjoy the abundance of life together mutual concern Mutual understanding mutual encouragement One more person loves you. You will have more strength As long as you guys are less mutual dislike

Mutual betrayal Mutual calculation Complaining with each other Blame each other The happiness of those two. It’s always more meaningful than a person’s happiness. Do you think so A single little sister was told by her best friend. Let’s have a meal together. Introduce her to a friend

I didn’t know it was to introduce her boyfriend until I went there. The man in front of him, from the outside, ah. Not really his food. In itself, he doesn’t quite accept the form of blind date. So, after my best friend said that I had to go in advance The two talked tacitly.

The girl saw this man’s clothes. It’s a $200 T-shirt. The ordinary speech is still a little shy. The total amount of equipment is estimated to be less than 500 yuan. His heart, ah, inexplicably raised a sense of boredom Just say it directly I don’t think we’re right for each other.

The boy asked him. Why This is not understood Why do you think it is inappropriate So this girl said There are so many people like you So a big handful of mine But we don’t seem to be at the same level, do we So the boy asked him What level are you?

The girl said she was an executive in a foreign company. The annual income is over 500,000 There are houses and cars in Beijing. He said the guy he was looking for was definitely not the guy he was looking. This time some understand ah Just follow him and say

Then you don’t like my looks What about five or six objects with beautiful skins? Can you hold up? What about those funny souls? People don’t look for objects Like me Can ordinary people live a good life It’s really hard to find This girl laughed. You’re funny. If I look for you like this

Isn’t that already married? The boys said But you can’t have both fish and bear’s paw. You think it over In the end choose to cry in the BMW Or choose to laugh on the bike? How many girls have chosen to laugh on bicycles? As a result, the man still made her cry.

That’s why these girls want Since it’s all the same It is better to cry in a BMW This is the choice of BMW car But now there’s someone who makes you laugh on your bike. Are you not satisfied? The girl took the words and said You’re joking

Why do I have to laugh on my bike? Can’t I choose to laugh in a BMW? Although I haven’t found a BMW yet But on your terms, don’t give yourself a reason. We really don’t fit I’ll go first Men say ah Beauty Then I understand Let me ask you one more question

You go again You see ah In the past, they were all suitable for each other. good condition Find good conditions. The conditions are general Who will not suffer No one takes advantage of anyone, right? And now it’s under normal conditions. All want to find good conditions

Is the condition good or will you choose the condition good The conditions are general, and they don’t look up to the conditions. He can’t reach people If the condition is good, I want to lick the condition. So a good condition to find several objects However, under normal conditions, no object can be found.

Which category do you belong? Ah, this girl I really want to give this boy an attack. Go back As a result, my best friend’s call came in. Ask her what her impression of this guy is He said it wasn’t so good I met a loser.

I also blame my best friend for her bad eyes. How do you introduce yourself to a man with such conditions? Did you deliberately tease her best friend and say You’re too blind This is the heir of a group company. Don’t say how much people earn in a year.

A year’s cost is hundreds of times that of you. I went to a charity event today. I wear some ordinary clothes. Also did not drive This is too judging people by their appearance Harms me ah Also special I didn’t tell you about their family. Afraid you have pressure

How did you end up like this? Look at it. At this time, is this girl’s intestines regretful? Capital ha has begun to give up Chinese women Why? Because women have gradually lost their role in capital. Because now men begin to awaken Hear here ah Some sensitive and vulnerable girls should be angry again.

Don’t think I’m talking nonsense to create anxiety for you Men have begun to resist More and more men are choosing to stay single and not get married. They are no longer willing to use money to pursue girls Some men are even single and not married. As a counterattack

What about capital? His core is to make money. Now the situation is obvious Capital will abandon the women’s island sooner or later. This is not surprising Girls may not believe You can take a look at this year’s Tanabata In the comment area of the major cargo anchors. It’s like magic realism.

A boy left a message saying Last year’s Tanabata He gave his subject a 520 turn As a result, they didn’t even say thank you. Well, this year, he won’t say anything. I’ll ask all the men in the studio. If you received 520 yuan when you were 520 How did you react

Almost all the boys in the comment area are echoing him. Then I will feel very happy The happiness of the ah Ah, there’s another man Said the mask that 3 years My daughter-in-law and I were both laid off. He didn’t do anything at home. What about me? To support my family

Go out to find various part-time jobs My daughter-in-law can’t understand the hard work at all. It’s really something. He doesn’t accept gifts except for the Qingming Festival. Other festivals must have a sense of ceremony of gifts There must be no food to eat, there must be

Every time you want to talk to me, it’s a big fight. And threatened me with divorce every time. In the end, I really had enough. too tired These love views brainwashed by capital I don’t know how many families have died. Then I just agreed to divorce

I live for myself for the rest of my life Don’t mention how comfortable Don’t I spend my money on myself? Oh I please myself don’t smell Ah, this is not a trip to the world for nothing These may be the sad portrayal of many boys Can you hear something?

Why do I say capital will give up girls Because smart boys wake up The economic era no longer exists. The money boys make More willing to spend on their own body to please themselves They no longer want to use money to please women ah

Marriage as a tool for girls to accumulate money and jump Has begun to fester and be abandoned Because boys don’t want to cooperate anymore. According to data statistics Starting from 2021 The number of men who consume more than 1000 yuan in a single month in China It’s far beyond the number of women.

Although boys don’t spend much money at ordinary times. But as long as they spend it, it’s all big, big money. Buy a car in a few 100000 50 thousands or 60 thousands buy a snowboard Tens of thousands of dollars to charge their own games refit the car Go skiing around the world

Diving to the major oceans In fact, the boys have never been short of money. It’s just a low figure in pursuit of women before. So now they’re starting to wake up Love yourself well Please yourself. No longer maintain money love So these girls who can’t afford to live

Want to use money to test the sincerity of boys It’s starting to work. Let’s seriously fall in love, okay? In the future, a chance to make money from men. Probably just chance Do you think my analysis is right? Don’t forget to give me a compliment

Every day, I have people here who come to make wishes. There are those who sleepwalk in broad daylight every day. Dreaming Just floated over. They really treat me like a temple. Before that, there was a 40-year-old postdoctoral lady. Looking for successful people of similar age Don’t accept the stature is too short

Looks too ugly do not accept divorce with children Don’t accept within the system I don’t like people earning too little. He’s still a dink Don’t like children More do not want to have children I remember I refused him at that time. I made it clear to him

With you year.Successful people of similar age Men in their 40 s are the golden age of men. The somebody else is still so good is impossible to find you There are plenty of girls under 30 who are willing to marry him. Give him a baby What about you? You’re so old

This item is not within the scope of other people’s choice. Besides, you’re still a dink Don’t want to have children Which means you want a good, successful man to marry you back. And live a life of food and clothing But you spend his money Living the dame life he gave you

But you don’t want to have a baby yet. What’s more, this kind of excellent men There are not many who don’t want children. Otherwise, how can his wealth and excellent genes be passed on? You’re challenging humanity You know? So your idea is totally unreliable. As a result, he was very unconvinced.

Get up and refute me and say That’s not necessarily Ah, I am also excellent I also have excellent experience. There are a few girls who can read my degree It shows that my IQ is high. I have a funny soul. That little girl is so shallow Is most of it for his money?

I won’t. I’m sure I’ll be his soul mate If you have to have a child alas I can also accept surrogacy Oh, my God. I told him at that time Dear. The door is over there You go out and turn right until there’s a monastery at the end of the road.

What about you? Go burn incense Make a wish, OK Another one came recently. I can’t figure out how many pounds and how many taels I have. The 38-year-old divorced woman said she was in Tsinghua’s system. So, I want to find a teacher or professor in Tsinghua or something. Will be more common language

I am unmarried. But giving birth to a boy already ten years old Then, you want the other person to have children or not to have children. I don’t want to regenerate myself. At this age, I can basically only make test tubes. I really don’t want to toss

Said his appearance maintenance is particularly good Looks like he’s only about 25. I really took it. 38 years old still living in the beauty camera Can we shoot it with the original camera? Take a look at your real self.

His scope of mate selection is limited to the first-class universities in Tsinghua and Peking University. He also said that he actually has a company. A lot of businesses deal with these people a lot of the time. But because it’s all business relationships So it’s not very convenient Talk about this personal feeling.

So hope through me ah Then I immediately refused this one. I told him You’re in contact with these people every day. You can’t even make it Can you come to me? Is your brain damaged? What do you think These people Now you want to remarry Why did you go earlier?

Today, I have a 36-year-old divorced lady here. I was really shocked by the request to choose a spouse. He said he was a native of a first-tier city. have a car and a house Work within the system is stable You can also settle down for each other.

Let’s talk about his body and appearance. It’s not bad The only short board is older. with a child I was thinking about it. What about this divorced person? Should be to understand their own a few pounds a few taels What kind of person can you find?

As a result, people said that when they divorced 3 years ago Because my husband is busy. So he cheated on himself. Hard to divorce with children ah But I didn’t think I was fooled by the men outside. I left myself. The other did not leave. It’s just such a thing.

Two people not long ah I just broke up. So he took the kids own three years. I really feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings. How hard is it to earn some money? Thinking about the former husband to himself is really good. Begin to regret ah

So she asked all kinds of questions about her ex-husband. Want to remarry Finally, I learned that she already has a girlfriend. She has repeatedly made excuses to flatter her. But the ex-husband wasn’t impressed. And said to her How rude was what you said to me when you divorced

How rude I am to you now. So he saw that the marriage was not going to happen again. So I thought of coming to us. He made several almost impossible conditions The first city center must have more than two properties Do not live with parents Second, the height cannot be lower than 178.

Because the ex-husband is 180 Still can’t bald Can’t be too ugly She said Otherwise, you won’t be able to kiss your mouth. Third ah Annual income, at least 1 million Otherwise, how can we afford the two of us Because the ex-husband is in business. Annual income is very high

It’s not too much to ask for 1 million After I listen I almost didn’t faint with his anger. I said I’m sorry Ah, just you put forward these items Any two items added together It’s all Wang fried unmarried girls who don’t dare as much as you do. To tell the truth

There are really a lot of such women now. According to statistics, 80% of divorces are filed by the woman. But the interesting thing is Months or even years later There are many women who want to remarry. And most men don’t agree. Often at the beginning of a divorce.

Men have exhausted every way to retain each other. All kinds of begging and crying Take pain and take loss Even kneeling For men Divorce is very painful. And the humiliating thing And women don’t have that kind of mentality. They just feel unhappy Or with her husband, alas, there is not enough romance.

Just want to divorce But they don’t know how dangerous the outside world is. think after leaving him I can certainly live better by myself. But when they’re single again Only to find that not so many people will spoil them That’s when they miss their old husbands. Be the best person for yourself

But when they want to remarry Most men refuse. Because men are more rational They will think that the old days are not good. So you’re better off now that you’re back? Even I have lost what I should have lost I have endured should bear Do you want me to go through it again?

Men are usually reluctant to accept this arrangement anymore. Some men are a little bit neat Can’t accept during the divorce What men have women had affairs? He doesn’t want to be the catcher now. So most men will not agree Anyway, just because you leave doesn’t mean you’ll be happy.

These women, I knew today. Why did you first Is that right? Although you are a princess It’s nothing great The family is still a prince Yesterday, a girl told me I introduced her to a boy Recently, I ‘ve blacked him out. Two weeks ago, the girl met the boy.

Both sides are very satisfied Both of them are rich. Family conditions and personal conditions are very suitable Then, after exchanging WeChat with each other Started dating. First date in a restaurant. Girl, the road is a little blocked More than an hour late Halfway through The boy asked him where he was.

I am really a little impatient to wait. What about girls? Sometimes they’re a little late. Ah, generally speaking, it is understandable But more than an hour is really a bit too much, right But when the girl got to the location Not only did I not apologize to the boy

Instead, he asked the boy that I was driving on the road. Why do you have no regard for my safety Keep urging me She thinks boys are particularly ungentlemanly. Eat this meal down Boys still feel a little sorry So take care of her carefully and considerate So the girl’s anger disappeared.

But this time The boy’s impression of the girl is somewhat reduced. She, she’s not only late Don’t apologize It seems that boys should wait for her too. And, uh, in the middle of this meal The boys have always been taking care of her preferences.

And he’s just looking at each other’s words and deeds. But no act of their own What about a second date? Two people go to the movies I have an appointment first See what movie As a result, the leaders will open their eyes.

All of a sudden, the girl said she didn’t want to see this anymore. Do you want to change a boy Re-select with him It took two people more than an hour to decide what to see In the cinema The boy was thirsty. Go get the mineral water nearby. Because it’s too dark

Can’t see clearly As a result, he caught the girl’s arm. This girl pulled away quickly. And immediately came a sentence What are you doing? I’m not one of those casual people Boys are embarrassed. Because in the cinema It’s not easy for him to explain The mood is very bad After going home

Boys have already started to get down a little. I feel that this princess is too angry. I really don’t like it. Maybe I ‘ve been pampered since I was a child. The third date. It died directly in WeChat. The girl said the offer was Sunday. She has something on Saturday.

As a result, the boy got the time wrong. I have arranged for Sunday. This angered the princess again She said to the boys Why don’t you care about what you say to me? Can you listen carefully to others? The boys said Then I will listen to you carefully

Originally, the boy wanted to make fun of it. As a result, this sentence is for this girl. She immediately responded to the boy and said It seems that you are suitable for the kind of girl who licks you. That kind of girl is generally deceptive. mouth is also very sweet

So two people are in WeChat You a I a ah That’s how it started. Finally, the boy said something. If you can’t talk Can say less Is really a sentence worse than a sentence You can keep your mouth shut You’re an extremely rude person. You know?

What qualifications do you have to evaluate a person who is not familiar You are a person who does things without plans and changes them at will. Everything should be self-centered. I don’t even know how to apologize for being late. Also do not know how to praise others Always looking for someone else’s problem

Zoom in on contradictory points People who also like to judge others at will. After that Wait for this girl to type a long string of words When sent in the past I found that I had been blacked out by the other party. This time ah The girl began to say to me Oops.

I found that these boys with better conditions now It’s just too bloated I can’t see myself clearly, can I? They all think they deserve me. They don’t want A girl like me in their real life It’s hard to get in touch with life circles, okay

Who do you think is right and who is wrong? What do you think about this? Come on, let’s have a chat in the comment section. Ten years ago, a 28-year-old man 26 year old woman. Their blind date didn’t work out in the end. Because women are beautiful and capable. High education

That’s why she’s looking for a partner with a high eye. The man is very handsome Education is also good But it’s a mediocre career. No money The man has a crush on this woman. After three months. In the end, the woman weighed the pros and cons and gave up the man.

Five years later? The woman found a boss. Live the life of the boss’s wife The man gave up his nine-to-five job. Start your own business After several years of effort From the beginning of nothing Gradually became a big boss with 200 employees. After a woman marries a rich man No longer motivated Efforts

Also don’t go out to work Raising by my husband. In the beginning, it was very rich. Quality of life is also high He was very pleased with his choice. But there is an unexpected situation My husband’s business has been affected by the epidemic in recent years. a crushing defeat

The company is already in danger of going out of business My husband is already in debt. He’s looking at his patron. It’s almost unreliable. Also went out looking for work However, I haven’t been to work for too long. Already out of touch with society Nothing It’s so hard to find a good job

So he was working. While wondering whether it is time to re-plan This year, she filed for divorce with her husband. That this kind of woman she is really very realistic ruthless terrible As long as the man ah You have no money He will abandon you immediately After the divorce?

She immediately began to dirty Find yourself another object to marry But at this time his demands did not drop a bit. When we came here After reading dozens of men’s profiles Only a few have been selected. These few people They are all boss-level men. Everyone is very good

But here comes the funny thing. Only one of the boys agreed to meet him. What the woman never thought was After 10 years She was with the poor man he looked down. Face-to-face blind date This time it’s extremely embarrassing to sit down. She learned that the man was using an alias

To understand why I feel so familiar But did not recognize After they exchanged pleasantries Simple talk about these years of life What about women?Know now the man’s worth is already a very high when the order of magnitude A little can’t wait to express his mind

At that time, I thought he was especially outstanding. I saw my own eyes and so on. The man actually understood what she meant. She said to the woman Your criteria for finding a husband have not changed. Ah, you still like rich But you’re out of luck And my standards haven’t changed.

I still love being young and beautiful And I can achieve So I came to see you today It’s not a blind date with you. It’s not like I never forget you. I just wanted to come over and tell you a few words. First of all, I thank you very much for not marrying.

Let me have the motivation to start a business to make money I have today’s achievements Second? I am very grateful I met a woman like you when I was young Let me be very clear about what kind of woman I am looking. That sentence is very good Sunset West Mountain

You don’t accompany the comeback Who are you? share weal and woe You’re not in the splendor You don’t deserve Do you think this man did the right thing? Let’s talk about it in the comments section.

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